How do I get unaddicted from chapstick?

I use it every 30 minutes. Blistex, carmax, burts bees, vaseline/patroleum jelly, anything! I tried going with out it today but my lips are dry, cracked, and red (even on the skin around my lips). They are exspecially cracked in the corners. How do I become unaddicted? I drink quite a bit of water btw. & also, when will my lips start producing their own natural oils again? BA to anyone who also answers that second question.